Boys boys boys

Would life be easier with or without boys?

I am a person trusted by her friends... And they trust me so much that they tell me detailed stories about their lives and how "their boys" just somehow mess things up. I mean, just before starting this entry one of my friends who studies in UPLB called me up to tell me about how much she is hurt by everything that is happening between her and the boy she likes.

They've got all sorts of problems, actually. One was telling me just yesterday how much she is suffering because of the feeling that the guy she likes is starting to develop feelings for her closest college friend, who happens to know about her intense crush on the guy, by the way. Also yesterday I was chatting with a friend on YM and she was telling me about how she and her guy best friend were growing farther apart. Another friend of mine was telling me before about how she feels that she and her best friend were also losing the friendship that they previously had just because of the girl that the guy likes. And now this... a friend telling me how "used" she felt, because after all that the guy told her about caring so much for her he was treating her in a way that makes her feel as if he did not really give a damn. Para bang pinag-sawaan na daw siya... And it's hurting her so much.

Listening to their stories, I can't help but feel that the boys are the ones at fault. I don't know if it's just because I care for my friends and I don't want them getting hurt, or because I just have this bias, but whenever I hear them tell me about their "love lives" I keep thinking that it's the guys' fault for being so gago. They don't even realize they're hurting other's feelings, or if ever they do it just really does not matter to them at all. Especially those "best friends." I hate hearing about boys taking their friendship with others for granted just because they now have a girl to pay attention to at all times.

I feel as if I've just ranted about nonsense right there, but I just wanted to express my feelings. I don't even know if I made any sense. I didn't bother trying to check the grammar because I'm not in my OC mode right now. But I really just wanted to let it known that I hate boys who act that way. Err... Did I even get my point across?